Monday, May 12, 2014

Talent show 2014

 
 

A couple of months ago I received a facebook message from Parker's friends mom
asking if I thought Parker would do something with her daughter {Jaime} in the talent show
 
Parker is pretty shy so I said I would ask him and asked what they had in mind
 
She answered back right away: What about having them dance to a 50's song?
 
I asked Parker if he would dance with Jaime and he said he would
I must have told him a hundred times that if he told her he would do it, he couldn't back out
 
I would have never seen this coming
 
We picked a song {Barbara Ann by the Beach Boys},
found a wii Just Dance video so they could learn the moves
and my mom my made Jaime a beautiful pink poodle skirt
 
We had the kids together several times to practice
The night before the talent show Parker was struggling,
he just didn't have it in him that night and Jaime's mom told him he was a mess
I was upset to say the least
Here was a boy I never thought would agree to doing this
He had worked his tail off and basically got shot down
 
After they left, I messaged the mom and told her that I thought Jaime should dance by herself
I didn't want Parker to be the reason they didn't make the show
She told me that she meant nothing by it and said Jaime wouldn't do it if he didn't
 
Well..... the big day came for talent show tryouts
They kids did AMAZING and made it
 
The talent show was last Friday and I was so proud of these kiddos
They were so brave and you would have never known if they were nervous
They performed like they had performed a million times
 
Here it is
 
 
Here are a few snapshots of the kids
 


 
Jaime's mom works at Maid Rite which worked out perfect
 
 
 
Their big day
Poor Jaime is crying in this picture
Their teacher from last year is retiring and they had the second grade classes sing
This sweet girls emotions got the best of her but I think the pink roses helped a little
 
 
Jaime and Parker, we are so proud of you! Love ya both!
 
 
 
 
 

Teacher Appreciation 2014

 
 
Last week we had fun treating our teachers for Teacher Appreciation Week
 
The boys and I took in 46 gifts every morning for 5 days and hand delivered them
It was a lot of work but it's the least we can do for wonderful staff at Colorado Elem.
 
 
Monday
The students look UP2U
Thanks for being a great role model
 
Tuesday
popping by to say thanks for all you do
 
 Wednesday
TAKE NOTE... We think you're AWESOME
 
Thursday
Thank you for holding everything together
 
Friday
Thank you for helping the students BLOOM



 A huge thank you to all of the teachers and staff



 

Beauty and the Beast




Sometimes we need a reminder that there's beauty all around


                                                         At our house, beauty brings out the beast
 
I love that everything is green right now
The grass, the leaves on the trees, our day lilies....
but with this beauty comes the beast
 
Here is the beast himself

This poor kiddo has been absolutely miserable
Spring is awful but this is the first year he has had problems with his eyes
They itch... we put drops in them and they burn
He told me he hated me Thursday night because it hurt so bad
It breaks my heart and I've made up my mind
We're starting shots as soon as we get the go ahead from his doctor
Parker has been a champ
 
I hope someday he'll be able to enjoy the beauty that's all around
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Sunday, April 27, 2014

Amaze me, would ya?

Some times out of the blue, my boys amaze me
It's usually on a day when I'm feeling worn and searching for a little sign that I'm not failing
My boys are far from perfect
 and many days I feel like the only thing we get done is directing and disciplining
but then they do something and I'm like, holy moly, they are getting it!
Here's what's going on in the life of my kiddos
Spence is finishing up his 6th grade year and I'm teary eyed thinking about how fast it went
We expect a lot out of this boy and sometimes I feel like maybe we should let our guard down a bit
but lets just say, we know this boy and we know what he's capable of
Middle school has been great for him
He has straight A's and his teachers love him
They keep him on his toes which is what he needs
I always say- Give the boy to much time and freedom and you'll regret it
His mind and body need to stay moving 24/7 but there are some down falls to this
Spence is like the energizer bunny but when his batteries finally run dead they are done
When he gets run down and tired, we have to watch for migraines
We were at the University of Iowa Children's Hospital last week for a check up for his migraines
Dr. Bonthius wants to take Spence off his medicine
Spencer flat out told him he won't stop taking it
If the doc refuses to refill the prescription, we will be finding a new doc
It surprised me when Spencer was so adamant about not going off of it
It's kind of a shocker when your kids start talking to the doctor and rolls are reversed
 I was siting in the corner listening to the conversation and was like, woooh what just happened?
It was odd but awesome to see Spencer taking the rings
He's definitely becoming a young man
Ready or not

Spencer has been a little under the weather this week
On Wednesday, he forgot to go to his private orchestra lesson
I asked him if I needed to email his teacher, he told me I could if I wanted to but didn't need to
I told him that maybe he should email her since it was his lesson and his mistake
Boy was I shocked when I got home from work and he told me he emailed her

We are trying to raise these boys with manners and respect
I'm sure his teacher appreciated that the email came from her student and not just another mom

It makes my heart sing when I see these kids making good choices

While I enjoy these little things that are happening,
lets not grow up too quick

A couple of weeks ago we were standing in the kitchen and out of the blue,
Spencer asked if I like anyone before I married his dad
Followed by: I kind of like this girl
I'm so glad he feels like he can talk to me but
I can't help but feel like they'll be grown in the blink of an eye

That's what's going on with Spencer


Parker has been my side kick this week
Under the weather doesn't even begin to describe what's going on with this little guy
This kiddo has been down right miserable
His allergies and asthma are totally out of whack and now he has bronchitis

On Monday I duked it out with the school
I felt there was a lack of concern for his health and safety
after leaving school having an asthma attack that no one caught onto
Walking in the school got me no where but pissed off
It's amazing what an email directed to the right people will do
All is well in our world again

I've spent hours on the phone this week that I'll never get back
I spent an entire paycheck on meds, meds and more meds
This boy is my life and I will do whatever it takes to help and protect him

His doc mentioned more medication and I just can't do it to him
He's on so much already
I don't know how the boy functions some days
He must be used to it because on Monday he brought his midterm grades home
Parker has an A in every class and we couldn't be more proud
He has never loved school
 He goes because he has no choice and he continues to amaze us

I love that my sweet little man is still so sweet
I love that he still gives me hugs and asks to have his back rubbed at bed time

That's what's going on with Parker


These boys amaze me and I LOVE them with all my heart
















Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Easter 2014



Easter has become one of my favorite holidays
One of the reasons is - My kids no longer believe in the Easter Bunny
 
When it comes to Easter, we raised the boys the way I was raised
I grew up knowing the meaning of Good Friday and Easter 
but my parents let us experience the other side of Easter as well
 The candy, egg hunts and a new outfit for church on Easter morning
 
Easter has never been about the EB, Easter baskets, egg hunts and candy
but now that we have that all out of the way,
we focus on what Easter is really about


On Friday the boys had the day off
so they spent it with their friends getting their first sunburn of the year

Saturday was spent working on the deck but we made time for some fun
I decided last minute that I would have an egg coloring party for the boys friends
I set up a table outside in the driveway
I preboiled my eggs so they were all ready and I mixed up a bunch of color

We experimented with kool aid this year and I won't resort back to Paas dye
The kool aid smelled AMAZING {no nasty vinegar}
It took 10 minutes to set up and 5 minutes to color eggs
3 of the 6 kids had never dyed eggs, what's up with that?





Saturday night I finished stuffing things in the kids baskets
I had fun shopping for them and bought them things they needed, not just candy
I didn't set the baskets out this year hoping one kiddo wouldn't wake the other when they got up
They both came walking through my door at 7AM Sunday morning
They LOVED their baskets

The boys got new swimming trunks, sunflower seeds, Power Aid,
money, candy, gum, mac and cheese
Parker got a drawing book and Under Armor sandals
and Spencer got a book and a pair of Nike shorts




Sunday morning we went to church
Parker woke up with a cold/allergies that morning but I insisted we go to church
I felt like an awful mom when the music got a little loud for his aching ears
We set him out in the foyer until prayer and then he came back in
We ended up leaving a bit early from church to make it to family dinner on time
We had great food and conversations as always
My cousin Erica was home from Atlanta and we had fun catching up
 {she got her dream job with the CDC and we miss her tons}
The boys played outside with my Uncle and cousins husband
My Aunt has the most beautiful yard- if you don't believe me, see for yourself
I could sit out there all day, especially when it's 80 degrees like it was on Easter

I didn't take many pictures on Easter
The boys didn't get cute new Easter clothes
and
Parker looked absolutely miserable with watery eyes, red nose and chapped lips


We had a GREAT Easter!






 


Friday, April 11, 2014

Life in a nut shell {lately}



I feel like we're running a hundred mph
Is running errands considered exercise? I sure hope so!

We're crossing the end of the school year things off of our list quite quickly

Science Fair was a success
{I still need to write a post on this}

Talent Show tryouts happened 
{BARELY- I'll explain more in a post about the talent show in May}
The kids rocked it and we found out on Monday that - THEY MADE IT


Spencer scored a 1 rating at Solo and Ensemble last Saturday
I think he has just about out grown his tie

We had our Secret Sister reveal at church on Sunday
When I presented my final gift to my SS, she started jumping up and down and said "I knew it was you!"
Am I that predictable?

Here are just a few of the gifts she received over the last year


I LOVE the chick egg holder and almost kept it for myself


Spencer is a great model

A canvas I made to put on top of her box of sunshine

Lisa's box of sunshine

I will be making more of these this fall 

I enjoyed having a SS and I'm sad they're not going to continue it but on the bright side,
maybe I'll have time to get some of my own crafting projects done

I've been busy working on teacher appreciation gifts
46 staff members didn't seem like a lot until I burnt my fingers with  hot glue

We had our first night of ball practice for Spencer Tuesday night

Spencer got his bottom braces on yesterday morning and has been pretty sore
I ended up making him pancakes at 7:30 last night because he needed something soft to eat
Poor kiddo!
I should take a picture, his braces look like they were put on in a chevron pattern
His top teeth are already looking beautiful after 4 short month
I can't wait to see the end results

Spencer has an appointment with his neurologist next week

The deck is coming along {slowly} but we're getting closer
My parents are coming over Sunday to help with the addition {whether permitting}


With all that's been going on, house work has been put aside
I've been planning to wash bedding for 4 days now but every time I go to strip the bed, I find this
and I just can't find it in me to disturb her

This morning I found her here so the bedding got washed
Oh how I wish I had time for a nap with that girl






Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Give the kid a break


Last Monday Parker was seen by his allergy/asthma doc

I thought things were going well
We keep him on Zyrtec year round and we add Singular as soon as it hits 50 degrees
We noticed that Parker's eyes were starting to look a little puffy but that's nothing new for this time of year

His doctor and I discussed his meds, activities and the normal stuff and she looked him over
She noticed the puffiness right away and asked if he had anything else going on
Nope
Well.... one look in his nose and throat proved me wrong

He has severe post nasal drip which would explain the clearing of the throat all the time
{how can a boy on so much allergy medication still be having problems- I thought it was a nervous habit}
and his nose is inflamed
He's a mess and spring just got here

His doctor suggested keeping him on the same meds and trying a nasal spray again
We took him off the nasal spray two years ago because of nose bleeds

She told us that we're running out of options and allergy shots may be the only way to go

I feel like we're over medicating him yet I don't know that we're ready to commit to 5 years of shots
If the success rate was 100% or even close, I wouldn't be as hesitant

I'm struggling as a mom with what to do
Where's the parent handbook when you need one



This boy loves to be outside
Always has, always will

Being outdoors wrecks havoc on him but he's tough and takes it in stride