Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Allergy shot update



Last week I wrote a post about Parker's scary reaction to an allergy shot 
Here's that post 

Here's the update:
After talking to his Dr. and nurse in IC, we all decided it would be good for him to be seen up there
before we continued any more shots here in Muscatine
Parker and I made the trip last Thursday 
We saw his doctor, we explained everything that happened and
 we showed pictures of his swollen arm and the hives that covered his back, chest and neck

I took the bottle of serum that they had taken the shot from with us
The nurse was going to measure out each dose to see if he was given more than he should have been
They were short staffed due to two nurses having babies the same week  so that didn't happen
Parker's doctor held up a bottle that was missing one dose (.05) and Parker's bottle
There was a noticeable difference in the amounts

Our guess is that Parker was given .5 instead of .05
When we're putting an allergen in a body, this is serious stuff
I've gone through the emotions
I understand mistakes happen but when I'm putting the health
 and well being of my child in their hands,
I expect the right dose of medicine to be given!

Parker's doctor is fabulous and always asks Parker how he's doing
She faced him and asked him if the reaction was scary
I never in a million years would have expected him to say yes
but he did and my heart broke

She asked him if he wanted to continue to do shots 
and explained that the reaction he had wasn't normal
I didn't want him to feel pressured in any way to keep going with the shots
I was having seconds thoughts myself

Parker decided to continue getting allergy shots

They backed him up a little so we are back to the blue bottle of serum
He got a shot the day we were in IC and had NO reaction
He will get 2 more shots from the blue serum in Muscatine 
( I will be watching the dosage like a hawk)
and then we will be going back up to Iowa City to get the dose that gave him the reaction

His doctor wants to be the one giving that shot in case he has another reaction
There's a small chance that it could be the way that bottle of serum was mixed
or it could be that his body just isn't ready for that dose
but they're guessing he was given too much

I'll be updating again in a few weeks

We couldn't be more proud of Parker, he's such a trooper!




Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Double Digits for Parker



I forgot to post about Parker's birthday so before we're celebrating another birthday at our house,
 I'm backing up to my babes birthday

On December 17th, my baby turned 10!
How can both of my kids be in the double digits already?

We make Parker's birthday a BIG deal because it's so close to Christmas
 We never want him to feel jipped like so many who have birthdays in December

We had his family birthday party early in hopes of making it more special
He was spoiled rotten of course and loved all his gifts
This was his favorite card
I sure wish I could remember what the inside said, something about eating every last crumb
This boy got his mama's sweet tooth so it's only normally to love a card that says, eat CAKE
Grandma made this adorable Santa outfit for his Build a Bear
Look at those eyes sparkle
He LOVES it!
Parker picked out a hunting themed cake 

We don't eat out much so it's a treat when the kids get to pick their birthday restaurant
If their birthday falls on a week day, we go the weekend before or the weekend following
We went the weekend before and Parker picked Buffalo Wild Wings

On his birthday he opened his gifts



Clothes, more clothes, Star Wars Rebel Action Figures,
Birthday Cake M&M's and Birthday Cake Poptarts

What more could a boy ask for?















Wednesday, January 14, 2015

The weekend we hope to never relive



We had a weekend we don't ever want to relive
Parker started allergy shots back in October
He has been a patient at Town Square Allergy and Asthma Clinic for about 5 years now
Last spring his allergies were out of this world awful and we finally gave in to the shot business
The shots are administered at Parker's regular doctors office so we don't have to drive to IC weekly
A patient starting allergy shots can get a shot every 3 days
We have the insurance from #%&&,
so we have to pay a $25 copay every time he gets a shot so we are spreading them out
We know it will take longer to get through the whole shot process (like years and years)
but this is what we decided was best for us

My mom has been AMAZING helping take Parker so he doesn't have to miss so much school
On Friday, Parker had a shot at 4:00
They gave him the shot, sent him out, checked his arm after 30 minutes and sent him on his way
The nurse commented that they were starting a new bottle and he may need some Benadryl
My mom dropped Parker off at home with the hubby and told him to give him some Benadryl
My hubby, being the man he is just put some Benadryl cream on the injection site
By the time I got home shortly after 5, we had some serious issues going on
Parker was breaking out in a rash, his arm was painful, itching, red and hot and he was coughing
These are not the normal reactions from an allergy shot
I gave him Benadryl and had him use his inhaler
I tried to remain calm but when your baby is having a reaction that's effecting his airway,
this mama had every right to become a hot mess and trust me, I was
I called my mom in a panic and she ran us some Zantac
{Zantac and Zyrtec are often used together to treat allergic reactions}
While my mom was dropping off the medicine, she asked if Parker had said anything about the shot
In the doctors office, Parker told my mom that he felt like he got more medicine than normal
and my mom said it took the nurse longer to put it in than normal
{With him starting a new bottle, he should have received the smallest dose}
We did what was needed to keep him comfortable the rest of the night
He was pretty sleepy from all the meds and we let him fall asleep on the couch


On Saturday the rash and his breathing were better but his arm was huge and painful
At 7:00 that night I called my mom to ask if we had maxed out our meds for the day
I'm always hesitant to give him meds when he takes so much already
My mom asked if he had a fever
He didn't act like it but we scanned his forehead and wouldn't you know it,
he had a bit of a fever
My mom had seen his arm earlier that day and was starting to worry about infection
We took off hoping Urgent Care was still open but it wasn't
Our plan was to be waiting at the door when they opened Sunday morning
but when he got up, his arm looked and felt much better


I've spent the last couple of days having medical records transferred in hopes of figuring this out
We will be going back up to IC next week with the bottle of serum
They will be measuring out his doses to see if he was given too much
He was supposed to have 500th of a cc but they think he may have been given .5 (half) a cc
If this isn't the case, maybe his body just wasn't ready for the dose he was given
IC will be making him new serum which will back him down a little bit but we'll still be on track


Through all of this, I've felt every emotion
No mother wants to see her child struggle to breathe
No mother wants to see her child in pain
I still question whether we made the right decision to do allergy shots
We've had scary situations from allergic reactions before and now we've had them from the shots
Right now, I feel like it's a no win but someday we hope to say it was worth it


Parker was absolute trooper through the whole thing
The boy just amazes me!

This picture was from my phone so it wasn't the best
We kept telling him he had big muscles
I will write an updated post next week after we see his doctor in IC


Thursday, January 8, 2015

The holidays and everything in between



Wowza... it's been a long time since I blogged
We got through the holidays, holy smokes that went fast
I'm thinking that people who work outside the home should get 2 weeks off at Christmas 
Now that I'm back out in the working world, 
I would do ANYTHING to have a little break during the holidays
I had cute crafts I wanted to make, more decorations to put out and my shopping was rushed
Every year I say I'm going to start earlier and get done so I can actually ENJOY
Thankfully the hubby gets great vacation benefits so he helped with some of the decorating
Normally I'm kind of picky about the decorating but it was either-
Let him do it and be quiet about it or accept the fact that it wouldn't get done so I stayed quiet
The week before Thanksgiving he set up the village
We started painting our village back in 1997 when we first started dating
I love it and the fact that there is so much love poured into it
It's not just a village that was purchased at a store
Each piece was picked and painted with care
When we paint a new piece, we write the date on the bottom
It's fun to get the village out and see those dates
This picture doesn't even begin to show how beautiful the village is
I promise to take pictures of all 27 pieces next year



Our Christmas tree was pretty sad this year
We called it the big Charlie Brown Christmas Tree
We went to a tree farm in Nichols
 The boys enjoyed petting the horses but the trees were disappointing


We probably should have tried a different tree farm but
every year the hubby bowls in a tournament the day we get our tree so we didn't have much time
Next year I'll be sure to go a different day so we have more time to find the perfect tree
I just kept saying- I can't believe I paid $50 for THAT tree
I didn't even take a picture of it all decorated because it was so hideous








Every year I buy the boys a new ornament
I try to pick one that "fits them"
This year Spencer got a violin and Parker got a crab


















During the month of December we had all kinds of concerts
Parker performed with the Colorado Jammers at the Holiday Stroll and at his Winter Choir Concert
and
Spencer had two concerts (choir and orchestra) the week before Christmas


My brother and his family were home the weekend before Christmas
It's so much fun to get these kids together
There was lots of singing, piano playing and they even performed a skit of Jesus birth


I finally got our Christmas card out the week of Christmas


On Christmas Eve, I had a fever and felt like a knife was stabbing me in the lungs when I coughed
I was feeling a little better Christmas Day so we opened gifts at home
 and then went to spend the day with my parents
My mom always makes hot cider, cheese ball, a cookie tray and of course a fire in the fire place
There is no place I'd rather be on Christmas


Favorite Gifts:
Our kids were spoiled and got everything they could possibly want
Spencer wanted a gun and told me that he didn't care if he didn't got anything else
Can you tell he was excited?

My Mom and Dad gave Parker his favorite gift this year
Grandma made Parker a new camouflage robe and matching pajama pants
I've had to sneak them in the laundry while he's sleeping
He has wore them every day since Christmas


The day after Christmas I ended up at Urgent Care with bronchitis
I'm so glad I made it through the holidays and had the weekend to rest and paint some village pieces
This coming year, I'll be working on those cute crafts and I'll be picking up gifts as I see them
With hopes that next Christmas will be more relaxed and enjoyable